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\u05d1\u05d0\u05d9\u05d7\u05d5\u05e8 \u05d0\u05d5\u05e4\u05e0\u05ea\u05d9 \u05de\u05e9\u05d4\u05d5, \u05e6\u05e4\u05d9\u05ea\u05d9 \u05d1\u05e1\u05e8\u05d8 \u05d4\u05d3\u05d5\u05e7\u05d5 \u05e9\u05dc \u05e0\u05d8\u05e4\u05dc\u05d9\u05e7\u05e1 \u05d0\u05d5\u05d3\u05d5\u05ea \u05de\u05e2\u05dc\u05dc\u05d9\u05d5 \u05e9\u05dc \u05e1\u05d9\u05de\u05d5\u05df \u05dc\u05d1\u05d9\u05d9\u05d1, \u05e0\u05d5\u05db\u05dc \u05d4\u05d8\u05d9\u05e0\u05d3\u05e8. \nIn a somewhat fashionable delay I watched the Netflix documentary on Simon Levaiev and his elaborate yet very simple scam. I decided to watch it after being asked by many people about his actions and about the naivety of his victims: \u201chow come they did not see what was happening? Giving him all the money and getting empty promises and bad checks and bank transfers? How dumb are they?\u201d \nThose women are obviously bright and intelligent and definitely not \u201cdumb\u201d. \nThey are victims. \nVictims of a person with a personality structure with Psychopathic, Narcissistic and manipulative traits. \nA person who will act without any concern to others\u2019 needs and wellbeing. \nAll he cares about is himself and his own needs. \nHe acts maliciously to harm others. \nBut how can this happen? So many victims, is there anything wrong with them? \nThe answer is NO! \nHuman beings live, function and thrive in groups – family, social and occupational groups. From a very young age, we are taught to trust, depend and support others. We learn that others are basically good and that we should trust them, cooperate with them and help them when in need. \nObviously, there are also bad people but as we see in the movies, these people are easily identifiable. \nOur deep need for trust is so powerful and many predators like Simon Levaiev make use of it. They gain our trust. \nThey present as if they have similar goals and needs as the victims. \nAnd then gradually they begin harming – baby steps almost not noticeable and as their confidence grows and a pattern is established the moves, demands and harmful actions grow. \nOrganizations are made out of people and therefore have the same need to trust their employees and contractors. \nThese are the organizations in-group. \nThe organization trusts them and trust grows over time. \nThe organization believes that they have mutual goals. \nThis is true of most employees. But what about the organization\u2019s Simons Levievs? \nTheir goals are different and they are not trustworthy. \nThey are out to manipulate and use the organization! \nBut Simon Leviev as well as many others has a specific personality structure that can easily be identified. \nEverybody watching The Tinder Swindler can easily identify his personality and mode of operation. This is always easy in hindsight.<\/h2>\n
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